I tried this just now... (finally got my way-too-large legacy file to load)
My elder couldn't blow the candles, but I could use the cheat. I have a faint memory of the game suggesting to use the cake to age up when I used the age freeze, I guess they forgot to make it so that an elder can use the cake? This could be confusing for players who are not familiar with cheats.
Anyway, Kaye, in my case the cheat was usable, so there might be something odd going on. I don't know why the "trigger aging" cheat wouldn't work.