yes, you can break them up. in RL i would never do it which is why i was reluctant at first, but then i realized this wasn't RL, so since then I've been doing ALOT of things i would normally never do! my favorite one was my Gold Digger. lol that was her name too! anyways, she fell hard (yea right) for Gunther Goth, so i stole him right out from under poor Cornelia lol then i locked him in a room! for one whole day he was having the "wedding" good moodlet and the "very hungry" bad moodlet at the same time! it was hilarious!!!!