I think those notices might apply to other sims in your town. I assume that's what they are anyway. They don't seem to mean anything for your household and nothing ever does of them 
Umm... I wonder if there is any point to these notifications, then... Why would the game ask me if I want to form a group if it's not about my sim? At least in my language, the wording is very confusing and like I said, I don't really understand what it's supposed to mean. I guess it doesn't matter, and as long as my sim didn't loose her relationship, I'll just ignore it.
This time I ended up pressing 'x' to cancel it, and it popped right back. I cancelled it again and got rid of it. My sim's relationship was like before, but when she went out with her boyfriend some townie woman appeared and slapped the bf all over the face. I got a notification in the upper right corner of my sim saying something like "Oh, I won't be taking part in your nonsense", I assume to the yelling lady who interrupted their snuggling.

I don't know if it's linked but it was fun to watch at least. Maybe there was a third wheel involved... (I still don't know about his possible other love interests as he isn't part of the household yet)
edit. to add thanks to Moonshadow, too; I also think it must be a glitch as it didn't really change anything.
